Four seasons of on-again, off-again have led us to this point.

Virgin River’s favorite couple, Mel and Jack, might’ve been meant for each other from the beginning, but it sure took them long enough to realize it. When fish-out-of-water big-city nurse Mel (Alexandra Breckenridge) moves to the small Northern California town of Virgin RIver, she’s trying to reset her life after losing her husband and baby. Local restaurateur Jack (Martin Henderson) is spinning his wheels with an old ex. But once they lock eyes across Jack’s Bar, it’s inevitable that Mel and Jack will find their way to one another.

And that they do, as you can see in the relationship rewind video above. We rounded up every single twist and turn in Mel and Jack’s complicated relationship through the end of Season 4, so just know that there are many spoilers contained therein. Watch at your own risk! And tune in for the fifth season of Virgin River, which has already begun filming, sometime next year.